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How to Become an Emblem of Good Vibes

How to Become an Emblem of Good Vibes

This article is intended to provide you with a set of positive character traits. Considered most vital, these are ideal values. To us, good character traits include effective communication, honesty, self-control, leadership, humor, responsibility and many more. At the point when you have an impressive character, it tends to be seen through your activities. It is not constrained to solitary esteem but rather those characteristics are exhibited in the significant decisions you make and the terrible choices they keep away from.

Behavior and Attitudes

People know you the way you talk to them. So speak gently. When you cherish somebody, the best thing you can offer is your behavior and attitudes. Your mental propensity is adopted by with some level of favor or disfavor towards people. It is less what is said but rather more how it is said; that is a vital factor of a satisfying identity. Everyone adores being around kind-hearted, warm-lively individuals.

Winning Smile

A sweet smile is the brightness of your inward excellence coming through. When you erect this limit by giving it away, you are a flag to others that you are congenial. It takes significantly fewer muscles to smile than it does to frown. So you should illuminate a whole life with your great warmth and moxy. Try not to worry about what others think about you. You cannot control what they think about you in any case, so do not stress over establishing a decent connection. Just act naturally. People value your originality when you generally demonstrate your real nature.

Full of Determination

Those with a profound feeling of direction are resolved to prevail throughout everyday life. They esteem their time excessively to squander it on good for nothing endeavors or misuse it lingering. It has been my experience that when you search just for the best in others, you continuously coax it out of them. I guarantee you, if you burrow sufficiently profound for the fortune, you will discover it. This is one the most critical frames of mind in building up an attractive identity. Few out of every odd day is radiant and not every person is bubbly, but rather who doesn’t love being around somebody who is energetic? Considerably more should be possible with eagerness than without. Wouldn’t you concur? Sidd Pagidipati said something extraordinary was never accomplished without enthusiasm, and none are so old as the individuals who have outlasted excitement.

A Sense of Gratitude

Helping yourself to remember the positive things throughout your life has resilience. Numerous investigations indicate continued sentiments of joy as well as a diminished number of physical diseases. Record three positive things each day and observe your expanded state of mind.

Constructive Feedback

As much as we attempt to enhance, we will dependably have vulnerable sides. Requesting input gives us an extra point of view. A few people to approach will be companions, family, associates, supervisor, or even colleagues since they will have no preset inclination and can give their criticism impartially.

Loving Kindness

You can never be excessively kind to somebody. Indeed, the majority of us don’t exert enough kindness to those around us. Being kind encourages us to cultivate different characteristics – for example, sympathy, tolerance, and love. As you return to your day after perusing this article, later on, bring out more generosity to the those around you, and perceive how they respond. Not just that, see how you feel as you carry on benevolent to other people. Odds are, you will feel stunningly better than yourself.

The author of this article is John Andrew.

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How To Transform Negative Thoughts With Mindful Thinking

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Negative thoughts can have a devastating impact on all aspects of your life. Recognizing these thoughts is one way to change your relationship toward them. Transform negative thoughts with mindful thinking. Taking mindful steps can help you create some space between your thoughts and reactions. Cultivating mindfulness can help you identify and deal with negative thoughts, which leave you in self-doubt and shame, and embrace all that is good at the moment. At the core of each of us is a space that knows pure peace. But as negative thoughts seep in, we tend to be drawn away from it, and this results in trauma and stress. Here are a few ways in which negative thoughts impact our lives:

Anxiousness and Worry

Negative thinking can make you anxious about things that could or could not happen. You end up thinking nothing good can ever happen to you. Whether it is your health, a relationship, or even your career, you start worrying about things going downhill, and your performance starts deteriorating.

Stress and Lost Focus

All the anxiousness can only lead to stress. You start losing focus and build up a negative scenario in your head. And even though nothing has happened, you assume that everything is ruined.

Criticism and Self-Loathing

One clear pattern of negative thoughts is the need to criticize yourself and those around you constantly. You start becoming too harsh on yourself and focus on your weaknesses. All of this leads to low self-esteem and a lack of confidence.

Regret and Guilt

Finally, it builds regret and guilt based on the mistakes you made in the past. While there is nothing negative about reflecting on past experiences, you shouldn’t dwell on a situation with no intention to learn and move on. It leads to feelings of guilt and worthlessness due to wrong choices you feel you might have made.

The Role Of Mindful Thinking

Mindfulness is about being self-aware and present at the moment. It helps you think more deeply and more objectively. It lowers your stress levels and enhances your mood. In a way, mindful thinking stabilizes your emotional intelligence, making you calm amidst all the noise. The key impact of mindfulness is that it exerts a positive influence on the thinker and helps the person get a better insight into his/her life. Here’s how you can break your habitual negative responses with mindfulness.

  • Monitor Your Thoughts

To be free of negativity, you must become more aware of your thoughts. You can do this by paying more attention to what is going on inside your head at any given time.  Identify thought patterns that lead to negative thinking. This can help enhance your degree of awareness. Becoming mindful will help you take control of your thoughts and emotions, and not the other way around. Catch the negative thoughts as they arise, before they gain too much momentum.

  • Be Present In The Moment

Negative thoughts come mostly from dwelling in the past or worrying about the future. You can avoid this issue by being mindfully present in the moment. Avoid negative thoughts and direct your attention to all positive things. Discard any thoughts that don’t have anything to do with the situation you are currently in. Relax and release the thoughts of what happened and what could happen, and think about what is currently happening.

  • Constructive Thoughts

Spend your time in constructive thoughts. You need to decide if you want to dwell on thoughts that lead nowhere or those that can make your day more productive. Allow yourself to experience every moment fully and think about something constructive. Use your past experiences to learn and make decisions instead of dwelling on them.  Constructive thinking lets you be happy even when things are not going too well. It helps you put the problem in perspective and lets you deal with them practically.

When you are more mindful, you become less affected by negativity. Practice mindful thinking, and you will see how you transform those negative thoughts into positive ones. And, eventually, you will get into the habit of looking at every moment with a positive mindset.

Author ~ Nisha BaghadiaNisha Baghadia

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How To Be Happy In An Unhappy World

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Can we be happy in this crazy world? Speaking of the world today as a place of happiness appears to just be “Pollyanna” positive thinking, not dealing with reality.

When we consider the present world, there’s much poverty and persecution on one side. In America, the poverty is minimal and the ‘persecution’ is verbal. We would think, then, that America would be happier. But, generally, no.

Gratitude for the blessings

What we find is those in poverty are grateful for every gift, every blessing, every morsel of food, every day of life. They are happy! They have joy! However, in America few are satisfied. There’s envy, grudges, the struggle for more money, power, and status. People are most stressed and worried.

How can someone who has, basically, nothing be happier than one with everything (or the potential for it)? They find happiness within themselves, yet they’re not concerned with only themselves. They are selfless and generous. These people find happiness in life every day, appreciating each meal, each moment.

They know the truth, they know the reality of eternity. Moreover, they’re patient and trustful. Can a wealthy country learn from a “third-world” country? Not in technology, true. Not in politics, no. Probably not in infrastructure, maintenance, or most other areas. But can we learn from the people, the strong souls? YES!

The old adage, ‘There are no atheists in foxholes’ is accurate. Those in ‘third-world’ countries are in ‘fox holes’ and continue to hope. They believe in eternity and what it offers. Also, they know their current situation is temporary. Hope makes them strong.

People of hope

We in America are spoiled. Many have no idea of the struggle we once endured that made us the amazing country we are. We once were also a people of hope… and belief… and love. But, today, most Americans have lost all sense of Faith. It hardly exists. Many of those who do ‘believe,’ don’t live their faith. Thus, the lack of hope—and, as a result, the lack of love. Charity is rarely observed.

Comments on social media are appalling. Hate and name-calling are prominent. People are quick to criticize and judge. Worse, they’re quick to attack. There is little attempt to understand. What good can come of it? Does the hate satisfy? Does criticism bring internal joy? Absolutely not! It hurts us—in many ways.

Step over criticism

Eleanor Roosevelt said, “No one can make you feel inferior without your permission.” So, even if we are criticized or called names, we don’t have to respond similarly. We don’t need to feel offended by those who insult us, showing their ignorance. We can rise above, pause, breath, smile—knowing the insult is untrue, that the name doesn’t apply.  “Let it go” and ignore the ignorant.

We can be a faith-filled, hopeful, caring people again. We can build up our faith in an eternal Deity. People can learn to trust. It’ll take a change in attitude, a realization that hate and unrest are upsetting in themselves and within us, hindering, hurting. A change requires yearning for peace, especially internal peace. Isn’t that what we all truly desire?

Calm down in order to be happy

In the recent movie, “Rampage,” the gorilla, “George,” would get upset and his trainer motioned for him to calm down. In the former condition, George was dangerous. When the trainer insisted George calm down, George would respond, calm down, and was able to listen and be reasoned with. Then, he was also the means for doing good!

We’re the same. If we’re upset, we cannot think clearly. So, doing good is the last thing we consider or even want at the time. But we must act as humans and make ourselves calm down to be able to consider all sides of an issue or situation—and then act and react reasonably, fairly. We can all seek and find that peace of mind and heart if we truly desire it. How can we not desire it?

We all have faults

No matter what we think, we’re no better than the other person. They may be faulty in an obvious way—but we are faulty in another way.
Continual fretting, constant upset– about political issues and every item on social media which the media and some famous people encourage– affects attitudes, relationships and also health! It damages bodies internally, causes pain, worsens conditions, and eventually can even kill. Worse, it can erupt in battles with others and someone getting seriously hurt. No good can come of it.

But, also, something few consider today is how it damages the soul. The soul lasts past death into eternity. If we all considered that what we do today in this life determines how we spend ‘forever,’ there would be less pain and less hate in this world.

Striving for happiness

So, let’s work on getting along, not jump to conclusions, consider pros and cons of each issue and motivations of each side. We should ask ourselves:  Why am I so upset about this? What is the source of the underlying grief I feel? Even if we don’t believe in eternity, we will be happier in this world if we realize we are not “all that!” We’re just another person striving for happiness—maybe in the wrong way.

What can happen when we ignore the ignorant, let go of pride, strive for peace, seek hope and practice love? We will be more productive, more successful—at our job, in our family, with friends, in life. We will be happier in this world. Then, if there’s an eternity, we’ll certainly find ourselves in an even happier place!

Is there an eternity?

Blaise Pascal said, “I would rather live as if there was a God and die to find out there isn’t than to live as if there isn’t and find out there is.” It’s called Blaise’s Wager. Blaise was a mathematician, a philosopher, a theologian, a physicist! So, he wasn’t ignorant! He was a wise man providing advice we would do good to follow.

Author’s Bio

Monica Walker

Monica Walker is a wife of 50 yrs, mother of 5, grandmother of 23. Region Manager at Augustine Institute. Manager & Mortgage Underwriter at Bank of America. Published freelance author — various local publications including weekly and monthly entries in church publications. Author — three books almost ready to publish. Poet and Songwriter–ninety songs ready to submit.
“Outstanding Young Woman of America”
Guest on televised Business Awakenings show.
Multiple, various awards at Bank of America and Augustine Institute.
Volunteer for church and small-town activities. Monica lives in the United States.

Why Self-Love Is a Key to Success and it Helps You Grow

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If someone were to ask you the following question, what would your answer be?

How much do you love yourself?

The answer to this question belongs only to you, and the importance is much higher than you believe. Self-love can have a grand impact on the choices you make in life, the things you are inviting in, and the effect you have on other people.

‘Your life is your own creation. Living on the basis of self-criticism will never bring you to improvement. If you want to achieve the things you aim for, you must learn to love yourself’ – explains Luke Megaton, a psychology writing expert at UK BestEssays.

For those who believe that criticizing yourself is essential to becoming successful, here is the truth behind the two choices:

Self-Love vs. Self-Criticism

Criticizing oneself is a choice, a tendency people have. Many of us see criticism as a tool essential for our improvement since the idea pushes us to live up to our higher standards.

But, what if I told you that you have been wrong all along? Instead of helping you become better, self-criticism makes you akin to sabotage your dreams and goals.

Without self-love, you can only hurt your productivity and performance. By doing this, you are hurting your well-being.

Self-Criticism Holds You Back

Here is how criticizing yourself reflects on your life

  • Self-criticism will make you focused on your flaws and decrease your confidence
  • Self-criticism builds on your fear of failure, which will make you give up easy and lead to rushed decisions
  • When you criticize yourself on regular basis, you are very unlikely to learn from the mistakes you are making

Yes, criticism may be beneficial for you in some cases, but you must find your own limit. As Alexander Pope once said: ‘’To err is human, to forgive, divine’’.

Self-Love Helps You Grow

  • Increases your motivation
  • Boosts your perspective and improves your decision-making skills
  • Self-love improves your relationships by making you happier and more confident
  • Self-love decreases depression and anxiety and boosts your psychological health
  • Makes you resilient, which helps you raise from failure and learn from the mistakes you make

Loving yourself is the best thing you can do to achieve great things in life. Starting with feeling good to looking confident in the eyes of others, you must learn how to love yourself more, and criticize yourself less.

Learning to Apply Self-Love in Your Life

Believe it or not, self-love is a learnable thing. There are so many things in life that will make you feel less worthy than you are. Some of these could decrease your self-confidence and make you judge your decisions.

Sometimes this will be beneficial and help you change the bad things. Although in most cases, letting others kill your self-love is the worst thing you can do.

If you want to improve your life and well-being, here is how you apply and grow self-love in your life.

1.      Find your mantra

Have you heard the word mantra’? To fight the stillness and anxiety, practice some meditation and find your mantra. Once you do, return to it every time you need a little boost. It helps you grow your inner peace and empower you.

2.      Get yourself some alone time

It is as simple as that – if you want to love yourself, find the time to love yourself. Whether it is a warm, calming bath before bed or drinking your favorite hot chocolate in front of the TV, get yourself some alone time. During this time, love yourself and nobody else.

3.      Find support

There will be times in life when you are struggling – we all have such times. However, just because you are having a rough patch doesn’t mean that you should do it alone.

We all need people in our lives, but not just any people. People who value us as individuals, and are positive. Such people will help you get through hard times and grow your qualities.

4.      Let yourself be vulnerable

Open up to others, no matter how hard it seems. People spend days and years keeping things to themselves, only to let these things out at the worst time possible. Set some time aside to be vulnerable with the people you love. Seeing people who love you will help you love yourself more.

5.      Notice yourself

In times of challenge and doubts, notice yourself. Instead of criticizing your every move when things go bad, seek the positive things you have. We all have them. It makes us grow and develop even more.

Put yourself in the shoes of people who love and admire you, and notice yourself from that position. Who do you see?

6.      Write to yourself

Yes, as ridiculous as it sounds, writing to yourself works. You can write yourself a letter or start a diary, but the important thing is to keep the conversation between you and yourself.

Talk to yourself as if you are talking to your dearest friend. Advise ‘your friend’ in tough times and tell them everyone can make mistakes. You can comfort yourself instead of attacking yourself, same as your best friend would do.

7.      Make a gratitude list

What are you grateful for? Write down five to ten things you are grateful for each day. It is very simple but very beneficial for your well-being and motivation. If you want to increase your self-love, give yourself good reasons to love yourself.

It can be something as simple as seeing a friend you haven’t seen in a while or eating your favorite ice cream on your day off. Just think of the things you feel grateful for.

Practicing your self-life can make all the difference in your life decisions and success. If you learn to stray from criticism and aim towards appreciating and loving yourself, you can grow and achieve more than you ever hoped for!

Author’s Bio

Warren is a marketing enthusiast and a blogger at UKBestessays.com, who loves music. If he doesn’t have a guitar in his hands, he’s probably embracing new technologies and marketing techniques online! You can meet him on Twitter and Facebook.

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6 Ways To Develop A Growth Mindset

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Succeeding requires that we take part during the time spent for our own development. It can be difficult to remain always open to being off base and altering course. It is normal to end up joining to what we think works and to what is commonplace.

To build up a growth mindset and self-development, we should prepare ourselves not to see “shortage” as a lack of our capacity, but instead, as an inadequacy in our own particular learning or experience.

Since we are largely equipped for learning and encountering, these two builds can be effortlessly satisfied. The main way we can quit succeeding is whether we close our psyches to change, to learning and to additionally building up the profundity of our insight and understanding.

1. Persistent learning

We should not search for others to support but should look to others to enable us to progress. On the off chance that we abstain from confronting snags, we can’t augment upon our present blessings and gifts or grow new aptitudes. Test dependably gives us a chance to learn. The more we take in, we learn and build up, the more ability we secure and offer esteem to our representatives, loved ones. A growth mindset is essential for success.

This eagerness to extend and develop places us in an upward winding of expanding our salary and our enthusiastic prosperity. Learning implies we’re keeping the “crude material heap” of our cerebrum naturally supplied. It empowered us to think of new and better thoughts, which each business needs. New thoughts and arrangements are essential approaches to enhance our activity and increment our prosperity.

2. Persistence is key to a growth mindset

Sentiments of disappointment can without any assistance drive us to stop sometime before we should. We can’t overlook that we are intended to flourish. When preparing ourselves not to concentrate on the end result, but rather to concentrate on what is going on. We should train ourselves to take a gander at what our difficulties add to us, as opposed to what they take away.

Since we are worked to suit an adjust, there is no impediment for us, making it impossible to overcome. We should figure out how to flip around our snags by acting with a switch proviso, so there is dependably an exit plan or another course to get to where we have to go.

This assistance is not to see misfortunes as changeless circumstances set to block our advance. When we trust mishaps are transitory we can utilize them to reinforce and enable us.

3. Grasp challenge

A test will come. Truth be told, the challenge is an indispensable piece of any advantageous undertaking. We should figure out how to grasp it. It is continually amid the more agonizing circumstances build up the profundity of our character.

Addressing our difficulties head-on constructs our strength to confront much more noteworthy difficulties to come in our future. Standing up to our difficulties makes for a little sense of self and brings the lowliness of acknowledging there are a few things regardless we have to learn. People with a growth mindset look at challenges from a positive perspective.

When we make a move even with a challenge, we build up a feeling of moral obligation, rather than looking to others as a wellspring of fault or help. The certainty and pride of achieving troublesome errands arrange for our psyche and soul to be caring, keen, and liberal to others, giving empathy a chance to run the show.

4. Grasp disappointment

We can’t maintain a strategic distance from disappointment and view this as progress. Disappointment is really a matter of point of view. It is relatively difficult to experience existence without encountering some sort of disappointment. Therefore, there is no advantage in carrying on with a careful or neurotic life.

Entryways will open and entryways will close. We will all probably settle on some greatly poor choices. In any case, we should think about every one of the open doors we would miss in the event that enables our feelings of trepidation to stop us. Disappointment is an ace instructor. It shows us things about ourselves we could have never adapted something else. Regularly, our most usable, down to earth and important bits of knowledge come simply after a disappointment. Tolerating and gaining from those experiences is the way to our prosperity.

5. Open to criticism

The more open we are to getting criticism, the more we increment our odds at progress. Compelling and opportune input is a basic segment of our prosperity, and ought to be utilized as a part of conjunction with defining objectives.

Powerful input lights up our advance. This sort of criticism shows us where we have to enhance and the territories where we are doing awesome. There is nothing more supportive than understanding what is working for us and what isn’t.

The sole motivation behind getting input is to enable us to enhance our actions.  When we decline to get input, we are persistently conveying that we are not open or willing to change or develop. We can’t put off this vibe and turn into the achievement we want to be.

6. Commend others

To influence the move to progress to a charming one, we can’t live desirous and scared by others. We should focus on being really upbeat for the achievement others have accomplished.

It is just in focusing on this that we cure the begrudge which can too effectively attack our own particular achievement. There is nothing engaging about a “hater.” How we handle other individuals’ prosperity, particularly when things may not go so well for us, is our very own marker development and conviction about ourselves.

We should grab each shot exhibited to us to earnestly compliment others. This makes a climate for others to need to praise our victories with us as we contact them. Whenever somebody we know gets incredible news, don’t detest – celebrate with them.

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Keep in mind that, we get what we really ask for.

We just set ourselves up for more bliss in our own particular lives as we praise the triumphs of others.

The most widely recognized information around development mentality remains its distinction from a settled attitude. Carol Dweck has expressed that instructing individuals that their mind can change is a decent beginning stage. Dweck additionally cautions against adulating a tyke’s characteristic capacity or knowledge, as this can prompt a settled outlook.

In youthful kids, a progression of concentrates found that adulating insight can prompt them surrendering rapidly in the wake of encountering disappointment, a lessening in satisfaction, and notwithstanding seeing exertion as something just required by less capable individuals. These are a portion of the approaches to building up a development mentality.

 About the Author   

Asma Niaz is an Academic writer who loves to write stellar content on various educational topics, programs, training, and courses.

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Positive Instructing Technologies – and the Future of Online Learning

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Disclaimer: This article is primarily intended for teachers and parents. Still, it can prove insights for anyone interested in the converging disciplines of ‘Teaching’ and ‘Learning’. Anyone who can bear the sight of academic concepts tucked in ‘hither and thither’ within the prose. So reader discretion is advised…

What is the best way to impart a quality education?

One that does not restrict the student’s intellectual scope, but encourages it to grow uniformly. Both within the confines of the curriculum and without it.

In this post, I will attempt to address this question, as well as try to anticipate the direction in which the Online Learning venture is headed. The role that ‘positive’ technologies – such as Constructivist teaching models – will inevitably play in the future will also be shed light upon.

When scholars and researchers analyze learning & teaching methods academically, they tend to emerge with not-very-dissimilar conclusions.

“A general optimism/freshness of outlook and theoretical perspective is a critical component of every sound and collaborative teaching regimen.”

The traditional stances pertaining to this issue have largely given way to more information-sharing & knowledge-construction frameworks. These have been explored in full through the progressive/constructivist paradigm of imparting education. As a result, it might be a good idea to explore the future of learning from today’s vantage point.

Because when the end is clear, the journey becomes easy (or so they say)!

Note: All theoretical approaches referenced in this article blog post have been acquired through the Spectrum Internet Plans

On Positivity within the Classroom: A Personal Account

Positivity within the Classroom

I’d like to state that by ‘positivity’ I do not wish to make allusions to the concept of ‘scientific positivism’. ‘Positivity’ has to be taken in its more literal and psychologically-subjective sense – to be made sensible for our purposes.

Positive vs. Humane Reinforcement

In virtually all interactive sessions that I had within my classrooms, one core teaching principle seems to have consistently stood my test of time and experience. I call this teaching positive reinforcement.

This is different from humane reinforcement, in which the child on the receiving end of an academic check is left scarred with a debilitating sense of failure. As most psychological authorities would attest, adolescent and pre-adolescent children are particularly susceptible to negative feedback. Even if it should be warranted and conveyed politely.

As I have learned through my fourteen years of classroom engagement, the best way to communicate your disapproval of a student’s work performance is to not intone the said verbal or textual correspondence as such.

Learning from My Mistake

Learning from My Mistake

When starting out as a fresh instructor, I continually committed an error. I used to be very direct and straightforward with my impressionable young ‘charges’; as I referred to them in my Victorian state-of-mind back then.

At this point, I’m sure that you can gauge something about my psyche from these involuntary admissions. I generally believe that a teacher should be like an open book, with a transparent subjectivity that can be understood. Charismatic and forceful figures have the uncanny influence of dictating their opinions to others.

It wasn’t long before I discovered the great degree of animosity and willful contempt that started to radiate from each and every one of them. Even from some of my star pupils, who I always attempted to laud loudly in front of everyone.

Instead of imparting learning and improving students social skills, I had unconsciously become responsible for brewing up a mob-like sentiment in the group. One that was fast on its way to imploding from within. That means with pupil turned against a fellow pupil. Which wanted to bind me in a body bag!

Making changes

My moment of redemption actually came from the instigations of one of my more discerning students. This pupil indirectly attempted to point out the egregious folly of my ways. I asked about what I could do to make my attempts at consolidating a more congenial and ‘breathe-easy’ environment within the classroom. She offered an apt retort: Don’t ever criticize, or say wrong, to any one of us, Miss. Like, never!

And I have not only stuck to this wise commandment ever since but have also traced its echoes in some of the leading pedagogical theories of the 20th century. All these theoretical approaches can be thought of as abstract technologies in their own right.

This is because they provide teachers with a tested framework of assumptions. Which can be used to come up with innovative results in particular learning environments.

On the Importance of Positive Intent within the Classroom

Positive Intent within the Classroom

But what is true of all of these in-class approaches? It is that the dually-conjoined issues of teacher politeness/compassion and positive attentiveness serve as de facto limiting factors to the success of any instructing venture. If a certain tutor happens to fall short in terms of these matters, he/she risks the viability of the entire academic program.

Irrespective of which theoretical teaching model is adhered to. And till date, I haven’t come across even one educationist, who would be willing to sabotage the one vocation that he/she adores the most – that is tutoring.

There are ‘no wrong answers’, but only different ways of interpreting the same sociological & rational phenomena, therefore a skilled instructor can initiate two-way dialogues with students. Not a one-way exchange of information.

This technique inculcates a sense of confidence in the minds of students. It encourages them to build and refine their own knowledge-bases consistently. When a tutor is conceived as more of a negotiator of knowledge, and not its immaculate & singularly-authoritative repository, true learning can be facilitated.

Learning needs to be dialectical, requiring the constant input of all members. It should not be construed as a canvas to showcase the skills-set of the individual delivering the information.

For the betterment of all, that is!

Online Learning – Its Current & Future Prospects

Future Online Learning

The advent of the Internet Age brought with it an entire host of opportunities for education services to the masses. With the backing of the One-World vision, the World Wide Web sought to transform the way in which information-dissemination began to be grappled with as an initiative.

It wasn’t long before major university institutions started offering their distance education services to students. These virtual programs are also bound by the strict legal stipulations observed in the original brick-and-mortar academic sites. Upon the successful completion of an e-learning regimen, a student is subsequently awarded a certified university degree.

Addressing Current Distance Learning Programs

Distance Learning Programs

Although current distance education programs are fully interactive and dialogic,  they have faced their fair share of criticisms. Proponents of the current virtual learning model argue in favor of maintaining some semblance of a structure. They argue that the complete dissolution of existing paradigms for the sake of entrenching a more pluralistic model will lead to a state of postmodernist chaos ensuing within the classroom. Their detractors espouse a more ‘internationalist’ view of the teaching/learning environment.

With the contention that currently exists between these two pedagogical camps, one thing is certain. The future of online learning will definitely feature a more diversified blending-in of all known theoretical approaches. And the teaching virtues of a rigorous brand of optimism and continual hope will form an integral part of this learner-oriented future.

And in my opinion, the world, with all its legions of young learners destined to take the reign of global management from their predecessors, will be better off for it!

Author’s Bio

Rosie Harman is an Educationist, a Book-Lover, and a Culture-Critic, who likes to recount her professional experiences (of being a Middle School teacher) using the medium of words. She lives in Ann Harbor, MI, and can often be found taking long walks around Lake Michigan. She regularly blogs at Spectrum Cable Company.

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A Journey from Self Criticism to Self Appreciation

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Have you cornered yourself with the following statements?

  1. I cannot do anything.
  2. I am the one doing wrong.
  3. Other people are better than me.
  4. I am good for nothing.

If you have, then you have been in the self-criticism zone. Self-criticism by definition is to disapprove or criticize oneself/one’s own actions. In this fast-moving world, where competition is everywhere, people tend to self-criticize themselves. There is something called positive criticism and negative criticism. The type that hampers the growth of a person is negative criticism. This can lead a person to think very low of oneself. There is a fine line between self-criticism and self-correction. There are people who would call, self-correction, which is a positive way to point out the mistakes and work on them. And then, there are the other categories of people who take it in a negative way leading to depression, discontentment etc. I am sure nobody likes to stay in the disapproval land thus, there are a couple of ways, through which one can overcome excessive self-criticism.

An Exit from Self Criticism

I have been an average student all my academic life. What stopped me from crossing the average line was excessive criticism. Any competition or exam, I was never happy with my performance. I was always finding the grass greener on the other side. This continuous self-disapproval made me feel very low about myself. Even the things that I was best at, I started to fail in them. It wasn’t long when I realized that self-criticising was getting me nowhere. Then I made an exit plan from the criticizing zone.

1. Treat yourself like a friend:

One thing that I realized during the self-recovery period was that in all the hard times I had myself to lean back on. People in the midst of everything tend to forget that they are the constant support to themselves. One would feel a lot better if one starts treating oneself like a friend. Thus this is the first step.

2. Self Reflection:

This does not mean to reflect on the mistakes, rather this means to reflect on all the things happening in one’s life. This would give a person a better perspective towards life and oneself. Self-reflection can help a person look at things from a neutral and unbiased way.

3. Acceptance of the present situation:

It was always difficult to accept the things that were happening with me, thus moving on was complicated. Once I accepted the situation, I figured a different way out, which was less painful. Accepting the situation is a tough task. Sometimes people undergo very hard times and accepting those situations is not easy. But one has to come to terms with reality and move on because life is all about the next step that you take.

4. Adjusting one’s expectations:

Expectations can either make you or break you. If you perform well in any field, people tend to expect more from you. Disappointing people is tolerable, but disappointing oneself can break a person. Hence it is important to adjust the expectations according to one’s ability. Everyone is not same and this truth needs to be accepted.

An Entry to Self Appreciation

How many of us appreciate ourselves on the smallest achievements, or successes? As far as I am concerned my appreciation varied with the results of others. I often compared my success with others and found myself behind them. This was not self-appreciation. It was a comparison. Appreciation is very important to move ahead. For instance, if a child is appreciated on any kind of success, the child’s confidence reaches another level. The child will work harder to get more appreciation. And I am sure that all of us like appreciation, then why not start appreciating ourselves? There are some ways how one can do that:

1. Knowing the difference between Self Love and Self Obsession:

The first step towards self-appreciation is to love oneself. Loving oneself means, to accept oneself as a whole. It includes the perfections and the imperfections that the person has. Being comfortable with one’s own company is also a sign of self-love. Self-love can turn into a self-obsession. Thus one needs to draw the line there.

2. Be true to yourself:

If the person has accepted oneself completely then this step is easy. In order to avoid the self-guilt and blame game, it is better to accept the truth. Lying to one’s own self will lead a person nowhere.

3. Appreciate where you are:

One must appreciate, for how far one has come. Stuck in the swamp of self-criticism, one forgets to acknowledge this aspect.

4. Say what you feel:

It is better to let it out than keeping it in. Be confident and put forth your views. Let the idea/ thought/ view be as stupid or good as possible. Say what you feel, even if it is different from what the others feel.

If one follows this plan, they would notice that they have arrived the destination i.e. the self-appreciation land. When you feel stuck in the self-criticism area just remember these words by Louise L. Hay:

Remember you have been criticizing yourself for years and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens.”

You will be surprised to see what you have, to offer yourself.

Author’s Bio

Joane Smith is a writer associated with Write me an assignment fast
She has written articles on various topics, like education, parenting etc. She likes to travel and cook occasionally.

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5 Astonishing Ways to Escape Routine & Recharge Your Mental Batteries

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These days, many people find that the daily stresses of life leave them feeling overwhelmed, irritated, and anxious. If this is the case for you, now is the time to tap into the power of finding ways to escape your daily routine and recharge your mental batteries.

While there are many strategies you could implement to accomplish this objective, you may find the following techniques uniquely effective:

1. Go Mountain Biking.

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One great way to escape your regular routine and recharge your mental batteries is by mountain biking. This strategy is effective because it enables you to get outside and enjoy the fresh air. Additionally, mountain biking empowers you to engage in a great form of physical activity which functions as a form of cardiovascular exercise. This benefit is incredibly important because we now live in a sedentary society where many people do not attain the daily recommended amount of physical activity. Failing to attain the right amount of exercise can make you susceptible to a wide range of unwanted diseases, some of which include depression, diabetes, and cancer.

If you’re looking for a great bike to use when you go on your mountain biking trip, you may want to consider an off-the-wall Genesis mountain bike I wholeheartedly recommend. Do not take the process of finding the right bike lightly. Some bikes come with a wide range of features which will ensure that you are comfortable during your bike ride.

2. Indoor Mountain Climbing.

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Another great strategy you can implement to recharge yourself mentally is indoor mountain climbing. This approach is empowering because the physical activity will help release endorphins and chemicals in the body that promote feelings of calm and happiness. An added benefit of indoor mountain climbing is that it can help you get in shape. Another positive outcome that can result from indoor mountain climbing is increased upper body strength. The great changes that you attain through regular mountain climbing can help optimize your self-confidence in addition to fighting stress and generating mental rejuvenation.

3. Massage.

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A third technique that you can implement to recharge your mental batteries is massage. While many people think massage is a luxury activity that you engage in when you go on vacation and visit a spa, you can actually engage in massages to relieve stress and promote mental clarity. Massages have several other wonderful health benefits, some of which include enhanced digestion, better circulation, and improved sleep quality.

When you start looking for the right massage therapist, make sure that you select an individual who has attained the proper licensing and certification. This step will ensure that you are attaining assistance from an individual who has the experience and education necessary to offer you the customized, cutting edge services you deserve. You can do internet research to learn more about a massage therapist’s background and whether they are qualified to assist you. Be sure to carefully read through a wide range of a massage firm’s online reviews so you can gain a general understanding of whether the company is viewed in a positive light.

4. Self-Hypnosis.

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Self-hypnosis is likely not a stress relief strategy that you have considered. Yet while it may seem a bit out of the ordinary or entirely odd, self-hypnosis can be an incredibly effective way to recharge yourself mentally. As noted in Forbes, you can engage in a form of self-hypnosis that involves finding a quiet region in your living space and then repeating affirmations within yourself. While this might seem like pseudoscience, many people find that this technique helps them break negative thinking patterns that exacerbate stress levels.

Keep in mind that the positive thinking that transpires within the self-hypnosis process can have several other life-enhancing benefits. An example would be improved emotional intelligence and heightened self-awareness. As noted in “Positive Thinking Helped Me Secure a Great Job,” positive thinking can also empower you to evaluate negative emotions and gain a deeper understanding of why you feel the way you do.

5. Boxing.

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One final strategy you can deploy to recharge yourself mentally is boxing. This technique is empowering because the pummeling motion of the physical activity coupled with the spread of lactic acid through your muscle tissue work to effectively combat anxiety. There are numerous strategies you can implement to start attaining the great benefits that result from boxing. One of them is purchasing a boxing DVD and practicing this form of activity in the privacy of your own home. You may also want to consider hiring a personal trainer to teach you boxing moves. This technique can be particularly empowering for a beginner who has little to no experience because you’ll be able to attain individual attention and constructive criticism from a knowledgeable professional.

Don’t Delay: Start Recharging Your Mental Batteries Today!

If you’re serious about leading a life marked by mental health, now is the time to implement the behavioral changes that will help you do so. You can implement some or all of the strategies listed above to break up the normalcy of your current routine so that you can optimize your cognitive well-being.

Written by Amanda Wilks: Amanda is an online contributor to several prestigious publications. For more similar articles and additional details, go on Twitter @AmandaWilks01.

Five Simple Techniques To Deal With Rejection

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Marisa Peer shares with us 5 tips for dealing with rejection. Marisa tells us that it’s very easy not to let rejection in when you use the below five simple techniques to deal with rejection. She recommends that every time someone critics you or your activity to answer them in the next order:

  1. Thank you for sharing that.
  2. I actually missed that, would you say again?
  3. Oh sounds like you’re trying to make me feel really bad about myself.
  4. You know that’s not going to work because I’m not going to let that in, you can think what you like and saw what you like but I’m not going to let that in.
  5. Since we’re sharing did you know that critical people have the most criticism reserved for themselves? When you keep criticizing me you’re showing everyone here that you’re really dissatisfied with yourself and that’s a shame.

5 Tips To Help You Deal With Rejection | Marisa Peer

The Healing Power of Positive Words

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Human’s eyes represent his mind, the tongue signifies his heart, and his arms legs represent human will. The tongue is a small body organ, yet death and life reside in the power of the tongue. Words can have a positive or negative impact on our lives. A person’s speech is so powerful, that you can easily determine their mental wellbeing from the words they utter. Words have power, and proper use of the power requires wisdom. This blog explores the power of speech and gives advice for exercising wisdom in whatever you say.

1. Your Body Is the Temple of God

As an individual recognize God that resides in the tip of your tongue and in each heart of a human being. Harmful words ruin the temple of God that is located in your heart. As God’s worker on earth, you need to ensure that positive speech becomes an integral part of your life. Develop an internal alchemy that turns destructive compassion into a passion, and disliking into sympathy.

2. Positive Words Relieve Mental Burdens

Gentle words often turn even the hardest of souls. God exists in each and every human being. When we use positive feeling words and act towards another people, we shift the karmic balance by paying the previous debt. When we speak positively to another person, we relieve them of their mental burden and bring him on the way to self-analysis and light. Nothing is more discouraging than hurtful gossip, criticism, and negative speech. If you keep on slandering and gossiping about others, you are denying yourself the opportunity to be truly happy in your life.

3. Positive Words Have a Healing Effect

Words have an incredible healing power in people’s lives. Words of love, comfort and encouragement have a positive impact on people’s lives. This is evidenced by health in the body. Positive speech is a weapon against disease and bad luck. Take control of your tongue, to ensure it speaks no evil against the absent or departed. Make sure your words do not injure a person’s reputation. Practice self-control, good company and good words as they bring light to the heart. Familiarize yourself with these rules checklist on how to be happy.

4. Positive Words Uplift People’s Lives

If you are blessed in life, nature expects you to recompense the blessings you have received by uplifting others with your words. In doing so, more blessings, wealth, and health will come your way. If you fail to do so, then you are only denying yourself the joy and happiness you would have gained from uplifting other people’s lives. On the other hand, if you speak negatively about other people, you absorb their bad karma and dissipate the blessings you had gained, that you would have otherwise received.

The following are interesting beliefs regarding the impact of negative, hurtful words.

  • If you have an island under the ring finger or a line of line – it’s not a good sign.
  • A star at the base of your middle finger is not favorable. That is the reply for the sin of slander would be great.
  • A cross under the ring and/or middle fingers brings negativity in the life of those offending others.
  • If a cross appears on your mount of Venus, abstain from stay away from slander, gossip, and negativity, since they will directly impact your relations.

5. Positive Words Strengthen Our Relationships

Speech is the Light of Infinity which should be constantly increasing. We should approach our listeners humbly, and show them our intellectual gift by the words we speak. We should center our conversations around truths. We should also show modesty and respect in our speech. If you look around you, a lot of people are bringing down their love relationships, friendships and careers by speaking lies, being arrogant and showing disrespect in the way they speak with their partners.

6. Positive Words Create and Support Light

The Word is God and God is the Word. When God created us, he intended for us to be the Spirit of Light that guides all those who have strayed from the path of light. The tongue, should, therefore, not be used to destroy others. When you gossip, you attract negative forces that invade your body, mind, and heart. Such forces suck out the light out of you, leaving you weak and unable to exercise control over your heart and body. The only way to avoid this situation is by dedicating the words that come from your mouth to create light and support others who might be too weak having been possessed by dark forces.

7. Positive Words Improve the World

The world we live in is full of karma. We always hear that karma will get back at us in one way or the other. Your achievements, challenges and everything you go, are not by accident. Rather, they are the result of karma. Instead of attracting negative karma, you can attract positive karma. By using deliberate words and actions that are intentionally constructive, we set positive forces in motion, that will act on the good for all mankind. Positive words will improve your life and further karma incarnations, and by extension, improve the world through enlightenment.

In conclusion, positive thinking is something that you need to practice over a great deal of time to get it in your system. An empty stomach brings out the negative energy from your body. To help yourself, you need to eat healthy, at regular times and also stay out in the sun as bonding with nature cancels out the negative forces. Above all, learn to love yourself by taking good care of your body, refraining from listening to and participating in negative talk. This way, you will always keep your mind, heart, and body healthy. Here is an inspirational speech to get you going in your endeavors.

Healing Power of Positive Words Janet Anthony

About the Author: Janet Anthony is a blogger from Kansas City and content writer at Resumes.Expert who has been writing professionally for five years now. She mostly writes about motivation, self-development, blogging and inspiration. Her motto is “What you do today can improve all your tomorrows”. Find Janet here: twitter