How to Embrace Your Femininity and Exude Confidence

During these past decades, the world has seen a huge shift between the roles women play in society. Due to a lack of positive female role models, women have turned to male figures to inspire them in the way they lead their lives. This raised women that learned to be resilient, fighters and even aggressive in pursuing what they want. Although these traits are not faulty, per se, they started shadowing authentic feminine qualities like grace, gentleness, and empathy. 

Many women now feel like they’re trapped in a rat race where the ultimate goal is for them to come on top of the game. If you’ve felt this too in your life, you’ve probably also felt you can’t get a breather and or even attract the men you’d like in your life. This is why we’ve compiled a list of ways to help you embrace your innate femininity:

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1. Get In Touch With Your Feminine Side For Yourself First

In today’s shaky dating world, lots of women tend to focus exclusively on what would better attract men. The women focus on what we need to change about ourselves to make these masculine figures like us. However, in this pursuit for validation, many of us tend to turn a blind eye to who we really are and what makes up happy. 

So instead of doing this, try thinking about yourself first and investigate what makes you feel feminine. It could be a quiet day all to yourself, a pampering session or an afternoon out with the girls. It can also mean that you get in touch with your emotions and let yourself feel more vulnerable from time to time. Discover what works for you and what ultimately brings you closer to that inner feminine energy you’ll learn to cherish.

2. Create a Space of Grace

Grace is such a vague concept – we don’t always know what it means to be graceful or where to start. If you think about it, all graceful women you’ve ever met have certain qualities that seem to be common for all of them. It can be a certain elegance about their body language or the way they speak. Or it can be an inner calm that exudes from within and fills their proximity with warmth and serenity. 

The key to experiencing these emotions as well is first of all to slow down. In the space that silence creates a lot of positive beliefs and positive vibes can come to life. Try practicing more empathy to the people around you, gratitude and self-love towards your own experience. Your inner landscape will change in no time and people will start to notice you’ve become more feminine and confident.

3. Remember That Femininity Means Strength

When I was growing up, I used to be more of a tomboy than a feminine person. And that’s mostly because the education I received taught me that I needed to be strong and resilient, that I need to face life’s challenges without even flinching. 

By working on my personal development, I gradually realized that it was okay to be vulnerable and that it doesn’t make you weak. It’s okay to understand that feelings are not just black and white, but a complex blend of nuanced emotions that don’t need to be defined. You can be just as strong if you allow yourself to be sad, overwhelmed or defeated. I would even add that by allowing yourself to process these emotions, you start moving away from masculine energy, and embarking on a process that benefits your health both immediately and in the long run.

4. Start Appreciating Your Body

It’s only natural that us women have a tight and important relationship with our bodies. But as long as we don’t respect and relish our bodies, we can’t feel confident and grateful for them. With honesty, try looking in your life and see what actions you take that don’t come from a place of love for your body. 

For example, it could be that you’re eating junk food that doesn’t create sustenance for your body or that you have a poor sleeping schedule that doesn’t allow it to regenerate. Additionally, you can also use self-affirmations about your body that could make you start loving it more than you ever did. Remember, thoughts create reality.

If you want to get in touch with your femininity, simply start applying the tips from the list above and you’ll soon notice a difference in the way you perceive yourself. And since we are the ones who train the people around us how to be seen, as soon as you see yourself differently, others will too.

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‘Claudia Spataru is a free spirit located in Bucharest, Romania and always in search of answers to life’s greatest questions. She loves to understand how people work, what makes them tick and find ways to help them reach higher grounds. She adores the sea, traveling and laughing.’

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Formal Ladies Dresses on Events ~ Dress To Impress

 

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A gala is usually a formal event that takes place during a fundraiser or special occasion. Women and men must all go out and wear their most beautiful formal ladies dresses because there are generally strict enough codes to respect to this kind of event.

Opt for elegance and extravagance!

 

Wear a sumptuous dress and shiny accessories, even if you feel slightly uncomfortable. A formal outfit will allow you to honor your host or the man who accompanies you at the event. It’s time to wear a real formal outfit!

Consider an evening or cocktail dress… but do not feel that you have to limit yourself to these choices. In general, evening dresses are longer and go down to the ground. They can sometimes have an asymmetrical hem or a very high slit in the leg. Cocktail dresses are shorter and usually stop just above the knees. At one time, the evening dress was the only acceptable choice, but today, we usually accept cocktail dresses. Moreover, the difference between the two is not always clear.

If Angelina Jolie does not need to wear formal ladies dresses for the BAFTA ceremony, neither do you! Although an elegant dress is a classic choice for a woman, there are other options. You may need to research a little more and know that your daring choice may be unexpected at a gala.

You could wear a male-inspired outfit (like the one worn by Angelina Jolie at the BAFTA ceremony in 2014), a pantsuit or a distinguished jacket-trouser combination. Just make sure that the overall effect is formal and tasteful.

Wear pumps. Good choices are stiletto heels, open stilettos and those with thongs. Avoid thick shoes with thick soles like hooves. Make sure the color of your shoes matches that of your dress. They do not have to be identical, but they must complement each other. If you hesitate, choose black shoes.

You can also spice up your outfit by wearing lightly sequined shoes

Satin shoes are almost always acceptable for galas.

Do not wear shoes with wedges, cork or wood, or boots of any kind.

If you wear flat shoes, you may have trouble walking without getting your feet in the bottom of a long formal ladies dresses. Wear rather heels or a shorter dress.

If you cannot or do not want to wear shoes, you can find elegant flat shoes. Employees in a good women’s shoe store should be able to advise you.

If you are accompanied by a man, try not to look too big compared to him. If you are tall, try wearing low heels or flat shoes.

Add a little sparkle to your outfit with your accessories.

If your dress is already a little shiny, choose discreet accessories. Wear simple dangling earrings. Wear a pretty necklace and a pretty bracelet that goes with your glittering dress without competing with it.

Your jewels must be of good taste. Really precious jewelry such as pearl necklaces, diamond earrings and gold bracelets are traditional feminine accessories.

Fancy jewelry is often quite acceptable on formal ladies dresses, as long as it remains elegant. For example, it is unlikely that you take a rhinestone necklace for a real diamond necklace, but it will add a sublime glitter to your dress.

 

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Positive Affirmations To Appreciate Men

appreciate men Today it’s the celebration called “Dragobete” in my country. To celebrate this day I decided to write an article with positive affirmations to appreciate men.

Dragobete is a traditional Romanian holiday celebrated on February 24. Dragobete was the son of Baba Dochia, which stands for the main character in the pagan myth related to spring arrival and the end of the harsh winter. Due to his endless kindness, he was chosen – according to some sources, by Virgin Mary – to be the Guardian of Love. The day is particularly known as “the day when the birds are betrothed”. It is around this time that the birds begin to build their nests and mate. On this day, considered locally the first day of spring, boys and girls gather vernal flowers and sing together. Those who take part in Dragobete customs are supposed to be protected from illness, especially fevers, for the rest of the year. If the weather allows, girls and boys pick snowdrops or other early spring plants for the person they are courting. In the countryside, there is an old tradition with girls and boys going into the woods to pick flowers. When they return home, the traditions says that boys were running after girls to kiss them. If the girl liked the boy she lets him kiss her. There is a saying in Romania that makes a lot of sense regarding this: “Dragobete kisses the girls”.

Opportunity for joy and well-being, Dragobetele is one of the most beautiful ancient customs of the Romanian people. It is also mandatory that Dragobete men be in cordial relations with females. Men are not allowed to annoy women nor to engage in a quarrel, otherwise, they will have an unlucky spring and a year not favorable. In general, both boys and girls have a duty to rejoice in this day so that they can enjoy the love with the opposite sex the entire year. I write this article with positive affirmations to appreciate men with the intention to enjoy Love with the opposite sex, men in my case, the entire year. Therefore here are the positive affirmations to appreciate men that I thought and that I share with you.

Positive Affirmations To Appreciate Men

I appreciate my father from all my heart. I appreciate my father for conceiving me and providing for me in so many ways, so many years. Thank you, father.

I appreciate my brother with all the Love I am capable of. I appreciate my brother for the joy he brought into my life, so many years, in so many moments. Brother thank you for being the person that makes me laugh the most in this life. You made me laugh so many times, healing my soul and therefore also healing my body.

I appreciate all men that live today on the Planet Earth. I appreciate all men that have ever lived from the beginning of time and until now. Thank you for your presence, work, efforts, and energy. You are Loved. You are all Loved.

As Rori Raye says and I agree with her statement:

“The truth is – men are loyal, brave and strong. Men have a tremendous capacity to love, commit, nurture, cherish, understand, support and be there for us.”

I thank you for your thinking. I thank you for your strength. I respect you for your thinking. I respect you for your strength.

I appreciate all men that ever lived and the ones that are alive now, for the time and efforts they put in handling things and cherishing the feelings of the people around them.

I respect the masculine energy of a man for the amazing ability to organize, figure things out, achieving things, winning victories.

I appreciate and respect all the actions of men that they did, do and will do.

I send gratitude into the Universe for all the battles that every man fought in. I respect men for all the battles that they took, take or will take in the future.

It is said that as a woman you should welcome a man as if he was in a war the entire day. It is said that a man feels every day like he is in a war, he feels like he is in a constant battle. From this point of view, the woman should welcome the man like the Sunshine and show him that there is Light, Ease and Joy, besides war, battles, and struggle.

Therefore I send from my heart appreciation and gratitude for all the wars that men fought in. I send from my heart Light and Ease for all the battles and struggle that all men have gone, are going and will go through.

I forgive masculine energy for everything. I forgive masculine energy for every situation where it was considered or believed that it was hurting the feminine energy. There is much Love between the two. We love each other dearly.

Dear man, I really appreciate you. Thank you for listening so many times to me. Thank you for making me feel loved in so many moments. Thank you for being my protector. Thank you for being my provider. Thank you for taking good care of me. Thank you for making me happy. Thank you for making me laugh so many times.

Dear man, you are full of energy. You are overflowing with joy. You can achieve greatness. You can win your victory. Your body is healthy. Your mind is brilliant. Your soul is tranquil. I believe you can do anything. Everything that is happening now is happening for your ultimate goal. You love and accept yourself for who you are. You forgive those who have harmed you in the past and detach peacefully from them. Your ability to conquer your challenges is limitless. Your potential to succeed is infinite.

I am proud of you. I respect, trust, support and appreciate you. You are blessed.

It is my strong belief that men make our life more beautiful, more alive, more full. Men bring more fullness into our lives.

About the Author

Elena-D-CalinElena is the person behind Positive Words Research. Her new interests are public speaking, she is training herself in a local Toastmasters club, and theta healing. Connect with Elena through her Facebook Profile or send her a message using the contact form.

Clearing Letter to Myself

pink roseI love myself and life and people love me. All the people around me are kind. And I am kind. I am kind. I am happy. I am Joy. I am happiness. I am gratefulness. I am blessed. I am Hope. I am faith. I am Kindness. I am loving kindness. I am compassion. I am funniness. I am light. I am light. I am releasing heaviness. I am ease.

I am grace. I am transforming energy with ease. I am releasing tension. My heart is happy. My heart is in the joy energy. My heart attracts joy and blessed circumstances. My heart is strong. I am strong. There is Great Love for me here. I love being alive.

I release stress and worry. I release easily and joyfully the stress and worry from my body. I instantly joyfully release all panic. Life supports me. Joyfulness supports me and is in my body and all around my body. There is plenty of joyfulness events in my life. I love Ease. I love my energy. I love my masculine and my feminine energy. There is plenty of good things going on in my life. I love the events happening in my life. I love change. I really love change. I live for Change. Change is so good for me and I love it. I am so happy. There is so much contentment in my body right now. There is so much blissfulness surrounding me from all parts. Thank you for the way I want to live life.

Thank you for the way I want to live life. Thank you for my viewpoint. Thank you for my guidance. Thank you for my knowing. Thank you for my insight. Thank you for standing by my conviction. I am grateful that I have the power and I am showing this power in my kind way. I have the power to stay my ground. I love my vision. I love my inspiration. I love how I perceive the present and the future. Thank you for clearing my brain. I am grateful for a brain full of clarity. I am grateful for my meditation skills. I am happy with my skills. I trust myself. I trust my abilities to know things. I know. Thank you for my knowing. Thank you for receiving wisdom. Thank you for me being open to all this wisdom. Thank you for having this doors open to wisdom. I trust my wisdom. I am sincerely grateful for trusting my wisdom. There are many possibilities for me. There are so many happy possibilities and happy events for me in this life. There is great happiness surrounding me always. There is super great JOY surrounding me always.

Thank you for my peaceful body. Thank you for the peace flowing through my body. Thank you for the peace and kindness flowing through my heart. There is Great Peace for me in my body. Going more deep in my body makes me realise how much peace is always at my fingertips, at my disposal. Thank you for my Faith. My prayers are good. My life is blissful. My life is happy and joyful. My heart is joyful. My body is joyful. My emotions are joyful. My brain is joyful. My soul is joyful. My spirit is released. My body is released. My brain is released. My mind is released. Thank you for this releasing, this ease.

Love is finding me, always. Love will always find me, always. Kindness is finding me, always. Kindness will always find me, always. There is Great Kindness for me in my life. Life is for me. Kind life is for me. A life filled with love is for me. An abundance of love is for me.

I breathe Light through the middle of my Heart and I expand this field above Earth. Earth is in my heart, but the energy of my heart is bigger than Earth. I open to receive more and more love. I am loved. I open to receive Pure Love and Light.

I clear my energy in a kind and joyfull way. I clear all my cells. I clear my DNA. I clear my energy. Love surrounds me deeply. I am grateful for the clearing of my physical body. I am grateful for the clearing of my soul. I am grateful for the clearing of my mind. I am grateful for the clearing of my spirit. I am grateful for clearing all my layers. I am blissful. I am serene. I am peaceful energy. Thank you for lifting my soul with grace and ease.

Thank you for cutting the cords lower than Love. Thank you for releasing the energy cords lower than Love. I consciously choose Love instead of Fear. I consciously choose kindness than aggressivity. Thank you for my power. I am sincerely grateful for all my power. I stand gratefully and joyfully in my power. I have the right to stand in my power. Life is in joy when I stand in my power. I radiate Light.

I release all the cords that have roots in me and that “I” have grown them to reach other people. I cut the cords that come to me but also the cords that go from me to people, suffocating people. I set all people connected to me completely free. I cut all cords with wich I connected to other people. They are free and I am free. I set all people free of my cords, lower than Love or higher than Love. There is a new start for me now. I release all cords with which I connect to people, drawing their energy. Their freedom is safe for me. People complete freedom is safe for me. The complete freedom of other people brings me much joy and satisfaction.

I gently and happily instantly release all cords that go from Me to any other living being on Earth. I set them free.

I release all cords that I was using to take power from other human beings. I have my own power with which I am comfortable with. There is no greater power in people than the power in myself. It is safe for me to not be connected through a cord and not receive information from other people because I treasure more my peace. I treasure more my own individual power. I don’t need any energy from any other alive person. I have all the energy I need and more (an abundance) inside me. No need to connect with cords to other people. We are all free and this is perfect. I am free and all other living people are completely 100% free and this is so perfect.

Thank you,

Elena D. Calin
Positive Words Research

Positive Words that Activates Feminine and Masculine Energy

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Find below a list of positive words that activates feminine and masculine energy.

Feminine words that activates feminine energy

EASE, PERMISSION, KINDNESS, APPRECIATION *, CARING, UNDERSTANDING, RESPECT, DEVOTION, VALIDATION, REASSURANCE, RESPECTFUL, LOVE, COMMUNICATION, BEAUTY, RELATIONSHIPS, HELPING, SHARING, RELATING, HARMONY, COMMUNITY, TALKING, OPEN, INTIMATE, LIFE, HEALING, GROWTH, INTUITIVE, COMPANIONSHIP, RECEIVE – RECEIVING, CHERISHED, CREATIVITY, REASSURANCE, WORTHY, SUPPORTED – SUPPORTING, NURTURE – NURTURING – NURTURED, PRIZE, FEEL, EMOTION

Feminine phrases: quality of relationships, share personal feelings, I like me, nurturing feelings, loving cooperation, sharing needs, providing information, making a request.

Masculine words that activates masculine energy

CAPABLE, CERTAIN, FOCUS, BENEFIT, TRUST – TRUSTING, ACCEPTANCE – ACCEPTING, APPRECIATIVE – APPRECIATION*, ADMIRE – ADMIRATION, APPROVAL, ENCOURAGEMENT, POWER, STRENGHT, COMPETENCY – COMPETENCE, EFFICIENT – EFFICIENCY, ACHIEVEMENT, HONOR, PRIDE, DIGNITY, SOLUTION – SOLUTIONS, SUCCESS, SKILLS, AUTONOMY, LOVE, SERVE, SUPPORT, GIVE – GIVING, PROVIDE, DEVOTED, FULFILL, CARETAKER, SPACE, USEFUL, RATIONAL, STRATEGY – STRATEGIC, PLAN – PLANNING, ANALYTIC – ANALYTICAL, REASONABLE, CONSIDER, ANALYSE – ANALYSING, BELIEVE, OPINION, SUGGESTION, THINK

Masculine phrases: prove themselves, achieve results, feel good about himself, doing things by himself, loving acceptance, feeling needed, someone to serve, good enough, fulfill others, silent acceptance, comforting love, common sense, point of view

* Appreciation and Love are included both at feminine and masculine energy, because based on researches I found the positive words in both feminine and masculine. According to me, appreciation is more masculine, meaning the masculine needs more appreciation than the feminine.