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How To Enjoy Your Wedding Day

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There are many standards and traditions when it comes to weddings. The dress should be white. The venue should be picturesque. The tablecloths need to go with the plates, which need to go with the flowers, which need to go with the bridesmaid dresses … The list goes on.

Getting caught up in the stress is natural when there are so many expectations, especially after you’ve spent months planning your big day. However, when the day finally arrives, it’s important to step back, take a deep breath, let go of potential mishaps, and enjoy your day.

Doing so can take quite a bit of work, but when you look back at your wedding day, you’ll remember how you felt. Though there will be a lot going on, preparing yourself to stay positive on your wedding day will ensure that you enjoy it.

Keep Your Priorities in Check

You have done all the planning. You have the perfect photographer, a conflict-free seating chart, and you’ve even hand printed the calligraphy on every invitation. You’ve personally attended to every detail, so it can be hard not to focus on them on the wedding day — but you have to stop yourself from doing that.

You can plan out down to the second, down to the smallest of details, and still, something will go wrong. Of course, this doesn’t mean that you won’t have a perfect wedding, it just means that you need to stay in the moment and let some of the mishaps slide.

To help you get through some of the moments when it’s difficult not to focus on the details, you can have a few phrases ready to help you focus on what’s important. You can try laughing at it and saying something like “c’est la vie”, or you can ignore it and go find something else to think about, like your new spouse or talking to some family members. It’s best to have a mental list of a few different phrases or options that you can turn to so that you can truly enjoy every moment.

Bridal Party Responsibilities

Even after you’ve prepared yourself for the fact that not everything will run smoothly, it’s impossible to be ignorant of any last-minute hiccups or sudden issues that come up. Yes, you should enjoy your day, but that doesn’t mean you can’t tend to these problems in some way.

You can make sure everything runs smoothly by assigning different members of the wedding party — or other trusted invitees — specific responsibilities to be in charge of. This can also make your wedding a more positive family get-together by making more people feel involved.

For example, you can assign one of your bridesmaids the job of making sure everything goes well with the catering. You can assign one of the groomsmen the job of making sure no one eats the cake before you have the first bite.

Whatever details you are worried could go wrong, assign them out to someone else so that you don’t need to worry about it on your day. Be sure to make a list of everything you can think of, assign them out, and choose one person to be the go-to for unforeseen issues so that you don’t have to worry about them.

Money Can’t Buy Everything

Unless you have that much money. Or at least a wealthy relative willing to grant your every-wedding-day desire. However, it is especially advised not to use a credit card to fund your wedding. The day should be about pronouncing your love for your new life partner and making lasting memories, not having a reception that will rival the Kardashian’s. Besides, having to pay back hundreds or thousands of dollars during your first months as a married couple can put a strain on what should be a happy time in your relationship.

Another reason to reevaluate your budget is that a higher budget may overshadow a happy marriage. The Hustle reported that couples who spend less than $1,000 on their wedding tend to have happier, lasting marriages. Of course, you should take this — and any other statistic that tries to predict future happiness — with a grain of salt.

If knowing this relieves some of the pressure you feel to have a perfect wedding, then it’s a sign that you shouldn’t worry about having an expensive, fairytale wedding. However, your wedding day is for you and your fiance, and as long as you put the health of your relationship and future happiness first, then do whatever the heck you want. Even if your new mother-in-law may not approve.

Weddings can be stressful, which is why preparing yourself mentally is just as important as buying your wedding dress. Rely on your family, focus on what’s happening in the present, and try to remain in a positive frame of mind as much as possible. With a little bit of preparation and a little bit of letting go, you can truly enjoy your wedding day.

Author’s Bio

Avery T. Phillips is a freelance human being with too much to say. She loves nature and examining human interactions with the world. Comment or tweet her @a_taylorian with any questions or suggestions.

Here at Positive Words Research, we are looking to share with our readers original content that hasn’t been published on other sites so if you are comfortable with Positive Words Research being your sole publisher, we are more than happy to share with our readers your inspiring and empowering story.

How Travel Can Help You Find Yourself

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Traveling is more than just a way to experience different cultures, try new foods and see new sights. Travel can help you find yourself. It is an opportunity to find yourself and what you are capable of.  Traveling, whether with a partner or solo, can be a time for reflection and introspection. It enables you to dive deep into the inner reaches of your mind and discover the true you.

You don’t necessarily have to go on a soul seeking journey or feel lost for this to happen. Pursuing your dreams to explore new places will enable you to better understand your life’s priorities. It helps you see what you value most, where your passions lie and find yourself.

Traveling offers you the opportunity to try and see so many new things that your horizons will naturally be broadened. Allows you to see life from a new perspective that may have never been available before.

How Travel Can Help You Find Yourself

Open Your Eyes

Exploring new sights and sounds can be stimulating not only for the eyes but also the mind and soul. Seeing the Great Wall of China for the first time or swimming with the turtles off the Galapagos islands can stir up feelings of accomplishment and achievement. It can be empowering to know that you are capable of making dreams come true that you may have had since a young child. If there is something or somewhere that you have always wanted to see, your true self may be waiting for you there.

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Harvesting Experiences

Our experiences may not define us but they are deeply rooted in our memories and help us to remember more adventurous times of our lives. Sharing these experiences with others gives you a way to connect on a different level than you may have had before.

If you are viewed as adventurous by those in your hometown, you may see yourself as the courageous person that you just described in your story about your recent experience scuba diving or mountain climbing. When others see you in a different light than you see yourself we sometimes mirror that perception. Take the chance to share your experiences with others. It might help you reflect and appreciate the accomplishments that you have made while traveling.

Traveling on a Budget

You do not need to spend an exorbitant amount of money in order to find the true you or spend some time reflecting on yourself and your priorities in life. You can stay close by choosing a nearby destination to escape to. Traveling to a new part of the state in which you live that you haven’t visited before will still allow you the time away.

You could go on a day’s drive and give yourself some time away from screens and the distractions of everyday life to turn inward. Shutting out the stresses and demands of daily life offers time for you to concentrate on understanding yourself better. The simple act of wandering can help you to clear your mind and focus on the matters of the heart and soul.

Wandering for a Cause might help find yourself

While you are exploring the world, you may find your true calling in life through the act of service, volunteering or working abroad. The experiences that you have had at home that led you to your professional career might have happened differently if you spent more time abroad or joined the Peace Corps.

Participating in realms that would otherwise be unavailable to you in your home country can allow you to test out possible other career pathways. Many countries outside the United States allow for volunteers to serve as educators, medical aides, conservationists and other paths without the need for the previous certification. You may find that your truest self-feels the most empowered when cleaning the floors of a monastery or educating the young children of Africa. By wandering with a cause, you may find a new professional pathway for yourself to pursue moving forward after returning from your travels.

Traveling can help in combating depression and eradicating stagnant energy. A change of scenery, no matter how brief, can offer your brain a chance to recharge and gain a bigger perspective on specific situations, or life as a whole. Traveling has the ability to teach you patience, give you confidence, and test your own comfort boundaries.

By learning more about yourself it will empower you to return from your travels to pursue what your true self-holds to be the of utmost importance in life, and be confident in doing so.

About the Author

Avery T. Phillips is a freelance human being with too much to say. She loves nature and examining human interactions with the world. Comment or tweet her @a_taylorian with any questions or suggestions.

Here at Positive Words Research, we are looking to share with our readers original content that hasn’t been published on other sites so if you are comfortable with Positive Words Research being your sole publisher, we are more than happy to share with our readers your inspiring and empowering story.

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