How To Attract True Love Through Positive Thoughts

Positive Words Research“All you need is love” – the legendary Beatles sang and were absolutely right. Finding true love is as essential for human beings as water, air, and food. But the majority of people can’t even imagine how much it depends on the way we think, speak and act.
The power of positive thinking shouldn’t be underrated. Modern psychologists and philosophers agree that thoughts greatly affect our intentions, and, as a result, our reality. That’s why it’s so important to learn how to control them, without falling into negativity and despair. We attract what we are, like a mirror – if you act out of love and respect to others, are positive in your thoughts and actions, you’re meant to attract not only prosperity and success but also the true love of your life.

Focus on Positivity

Start from positive, never give up quotes.

Try to use them as often as possible, be kind, radiate positivity. As soon as it becomes a part of your everyday life, it will become a part of your mind, affecting positive thinking. Be optimistic, try to find at least one good thing in any situation, do the same with people. Use positive affirmations to talk to yourself as well. “I deserve love and I get it in abundance”, “I love what I do and people that surround me”, “I am surrounded by love” – repeat it to yourself, concentrate on what you want and formulate your own affirmations. Create your own positive world, reboot yourself.

Love Yourself

You’re an incredible human being, you’re unique, you’re amazing, you’re wonderful… you have thousands of reasons to love yourself. Just do it. We can’t expect someone to love us if we don’t love ourselves: all our strengths and weaknesses, achievements and mistakes, every single detail that makes our personality just the way it is. Recognize your strong points, be confident, don’t strive to be like somebody else, put aside all doubts. You need to love yourself before anyone else can.

Act out of Love

After you’ve loved yourself, learn how to love everything and everybody around you: your job, friends, enemies, family, new challenges, opportunities, surprises. Never hold grudges and remember bad, vice versa, try to excuse people’s shortcomings, be tolerant, patient and empathetic, change your attitude to the daily routine – enjoy it, stay positive. Dr. Norman Vincent Peale in his famous book “The Power of Positive Thinking” says: “The way to happiness: keep your heart free from hate, your mind from worry. Live simply, expect little, give much. Fill your life with love. Scatter sunshine. Forget self, think of others. Do as you would be done by. Try this for a week and you’ll be surprised”.

Get Over Past Loves

We are talking both about love and hatred. It flows naturally from the previous point – forgive everything, no hard feelings. You will never attract true love, carrying all those memories and insults of past loves, looking back and comparing your partners. Leave all negative emotions, resentment, and anger from the former relationships on the previous page of your life, make a lesson out of it, take it as a valuable experience that will help to avoid the same mistakes in future. Forget and let it go. Only in this way, you’ll be open to starting a new happy chapter of your life.

Dream

What is easier, my friend? Dreaming, or, scientifically speaking, visualization, is another way of positive thinking and it really works! By means of it, you create the situation that you’d like to experience, and this imaginary outcome helps to realize your idea in a real life. When you know exactly what you want, think about the concrete actions to get it, and act. For example, to find your soul mate, at least go for a walk to the public place or sign up for a dating website, communicate with people, maybe what you’re looking for is so close.

Final Positive Thought

Often finding true love turns into a line of failures, but it’s not the reason to give up. If you’re still alone in despair, maybe it’s high time to change your life? – What to start from? – Your thoughts! Follow these easy steps and you’ll be surprised with the difference. If you’re still waiting for some sign from above, here it is

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This week’s positive word is LOVE

This week’s positive word is

LOVE

You may be thinking this is quite an obvious word this week, but you’d be amazed at how many people miss the opportunity to show love.

Ask yourself, how many times in a day do you show love?

When I first heard about the Law of Attraction, it was the love element that struck me first. ‘The Secret‘ came into my life when I needed it, when life seemed to be throwing challenge after challenge at me. If you haven’t watched, The Secret, I highly recommend it, especially if you haven’t heard of the Law of Attraction, or are just starting to learn about it. The Secret is a great place to start.

At this particular time in my life there was so many challenges; financial, relationships, family … you name it, it was all very challenging … like a snowball effect! There was just one things after another. I didn’t understand why all these things were happening to me, I had negative view on life and would ask myself constantly, ‘Why me???’

However, when I changed my feelings around, turned anger into love and looked outside of myself and my own world, good things started to happen. It’s not only about the words that are spoken, it’s about the actions that are taken, the thoughts that move in and out of our minds constantly.

LOVE

Now, don’t get me wrong, it took effort to turn my thoughts around, it was a real effort in what seemed like utter darkness with no light at the end of the tunnel. But sure enough that light came, not just a dribble of light, not just a small glow, it was a whole load of party lights, fireworks and more!

It becomes an addiction sending out love to people. A good addiction. I receive so much love back now I often find it overwhelming. Plus, the initial effort it took to turn my thoughts around, is just natural now. My thoughts and actions are always full of love. I know this, because of the love I get back. The world would be such an amazing, fulfilling place if everyone could be more loving.

It’s one of the reasons I qualified as a Law of Attraction Practitioner, because I wanted to teach others have marvellous it actually is. The more love you give out there, the more you receive back. So go on, this week your task is to show as much love as you possibly can and reap the rewards.

LOVE

Secrets of a Long-Lasting Happy Love Relationship

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The secrets of long-lasting happy relationships are:

  1. Building a climate of practicing kindness, generosity, friendship, joy, love, trust & intimacy;
  2. Honoring the “bids” meaning the requests for connection, requests for a response, sign of interest and support, when hoping to connect, however momentary;
  3. Responding to “bids” by turning toward the partner;
  4. The partner recognizes the “bid” and respects that by engaging, showing interest & support;
  5. Each partner meets their partner momentary emotional need;
  6. Scanning environment for things they can appreciate and can say thank you for;
  7. Building a culture of respect and appreciation very purposefully;
  8. Scanning the partner for what the partner is doing right;
  9. Managing not to miss more than 50 percent of positive things their partners are doing;
  10. Responding to “bids” by showing they are there, showing to the partner that he or she is valued;
  11. Kindness glues the couple together;
  12. They build an environment of kindness and emotional stability;
  13. They show each other through kindness that each partner is cared for, understood, and validated—feels loved;
  14. They know and act upon the knowledge that ” when someone receives or witnesses kindness, the more they will be kind themselves, which leads to upward spirals of love and generosity in a relationship”;
  15. The partners consider kindness as a muscle. They exercise this muscle to keep it in shape;
  16. Partners know that good relationship requires sustained hard work;
  17. They treasure the development and expression of a generous spirit. They express this generous spirit a lot and let it come in when a partner makes a bid so that they can turn toward their partner;
  18. They enhance small moments of emotional connection and therefore constantly gently empowering the relationship;
  19. The partners practice kindness in hard times and during a fight—they consider that this is the most important time to be kind;
  20. The partners express negative emotions in a kind way;
  21. The partners consider that if you want to have a stable, healthy relationship, exercise kindness early and often and built kindness into the very backbone of a relationship;
  22. The partners practice kindness by being generous about partner’s intentions;
  23. The partners practice having an ability to kindly interpret partner’s actions and intentions charitably and they soften the sharp edge of conflict.
  24. Partners appreciate the intent of the other partner to do the things right even if they have executed it poorly;
  25. Partners practice another powerful kindness strategy revolved around shared joy.
  26. Partners show that they are there for each other when things go right. They think shared joy is actually more important for relationship quality. They respond with joy to the partner’s good news.
  27. Finally, there’s active constructive responding. If her partner responded in this way, he stopped what he was doing and engaged wholeheartedly with her: “That’s great! Congratulations! When did you find out? Did they call you? What classes will you take the first semester?”

“Active constructive responding is the kindest. Active constructive responding allows the partner to savor her joy and gives the couple an opportunity to bond over the good news. In the parlance of the Gottmans, active constructive responding is a way of “turning toward” your partners bid (sharing the good news). Active constructive responding is critical for healthy relationships. Those who showed genuine interest in their partner’s joys were more likely to be together. The spirit of kindness and generosity guides them forward.

Active constructive responding is critical for healthy relationships. Those who showed genuine interest in their partner’s joys were more likely to be together. The spirit of kindness and generosity guides them forward.”

The secret of a long-lasting happy relationship, proved by science, is that a lasting relationship comes down to—you guessed it—kindness and generosity.

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Love is Action Movement ~ The Word Rocks Project

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Picture from the Word Rocks Project

Love is Action Movement | The Word Rocks Project

I truly believe in the power of love and kindness. This power is the reason for which every day, in the past five years, I’ve been painting #wordrocks and scattering them everywhere for people to find.

Almost five years ago, my son Antonio created Word Rocks Project. He was only ten years old at that time and willing to leave some joy around to make people smile. We never expected the idea to grow that much. But it did. We are all over the world now. And we keep trying to make people happy through our message rocks.

Word Rocks Project
Picture from the Word Rocks Project

I always have them with me. No matter if it’s walking my dogs, Sgt. Pepper and Hey Jude, or doing groceries,if it’s mailing a letter or having a coffee with a friend. Sometimes I pass by a playground and will pull over the car to leave a wordrock. I will always find a nice spot to surprise someone.

Many people have found amazing comfort and encouragement at the exact right time in running into one of these rocks and being able to keep them as their own.

Knowing that random acts of kindness can bring so much for people, I was encouraged to expand my ideas. Love notes, golden tiny fairies, sparkle unicorns, autumn leaves, messages in recycled med bottles. So many ideas! Energy flows where attention goes. I turned my heart to leave these love messages and love keeps flowing.

Word Rocks Project
Picture from the Word Rocks Project
Word Rocks Project
Picture from the Word Rocks Project

Not a long time ago, I created another project: Love it, Forward List. In few words: every time I get to know someone who is going through a hard time I send a mail to my #loveitforwardlist volunteers explaining what is going on with this person. So they start to “lovebomb”  the person, with letters, cards and a lot of other amazing love things. Right now I have 2.000 volunteers writing the letters with me.

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Picture from the Word Rocks Project
Word Rocks Project
Picture from the Word Rocks Project

In this world that is so digital, the power of a handwriting letter is amazing. So, can you imagine when someone receives a couple of letters full of encouragement? The feeling just lifts them up, brings them pure healing joy.

Every day I learn with this project. The world is full – very full – of people in need of love. Or affection. In need of attention and comfort. And this has been a great and deep lesson in my life. It’s wonderful how the rocks have connected me with people around the world I would never have known otherwise.

Word Rocks Project
Picture from the Word Rocks Project

It fills my heart daily that with a simple act of kindness I am bringing positive feelings to people. I truly believe that when you open your heart to a greater love, everything makes sense, and life becomes more beautiful As I always like to say: love shared is love multiplied.

Word Rocks Project
Picture from the Word Rocks Project

These wonderful and inspiring positive words were written by Carol Arêas – a Brazilian living in California, a wordrocker, a kindness encourager, Beatle maniac, Boston Terrier lover & other fairy tales.

Instagram:  Love is Action Movement

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Contact:  wordrocks.me@gmail.com

Hashtags:  #wordrocks,  #loveitforwardlist,  #loveisactionmovement

God and me ~ Funny dialogue 6: Are you in love again?

God: Hi!

Me: Leave me.

God: What are you doing?

Me: Not your business.

God: Come on. Let me see.

Me: No.

God: Don’t be.

Me: I am not. Just stay out of it.

God: Why? What is all about?

Me: Nothing.

God: Are you in love again?

Me: See? This is why I don’t let you. You just like to comment on my things.

God: So what? Who is it?

Me: Nobody. I am not in love again.

God: Then what is it?

Me: Is nothing actually. I said that just to keep you interested.

God: But I am already interested. Let’s do something interesting.

Me: See? This is why I don’t tell you anything. Because you always put me to make all kind of things.

God: Uf! Then what do we do?

Me: Nothing. We just stay and do nothing.

God: Ok, then we will stay together and do nothing.

Me: Exactly.

God: Hmmm. This is actually wise.

Me: Yes.

God: Because you are my creation.

Me: You had to say it. Couldn’t help yourself.

God: Yes, couldn’t! Is true you know.

Me: Don’t care!


Moral: God is never bored with you.