“Life has many ways of testing a person’s will, either by having nothing happening at all or by having happened all at once.” ~ Paulo Coelho
If you want to attract love in your life, then you have to give love first. Confirming the love given here will help you to become a lover.
Humans cannot live without air, food, water, and love. As you can see, only love is the abstract of four indispensable things for life.
That’s why we see in society that when people are not able to find love among humans, many people adopt pets. Thus, in one or another form, love should be present in life.
However, just because you want that love, does not mean that you will get love.
First of all, you have to give love. Only when you give love, you will get love. And to give love, you must first love yourself!
Use an affirmation to attract love
There are different ways of experiencing love, some like touching and feeling, some people like to hear love whispering in their ears, others like to show some love with gifts.
The best way to get to love the way you want is to share it with those people you love. Love affirmations will help you in your efforts.
Become a loving person. We draw those people in our lives who mirror our personality.
Therefore, if you want people to love you, begin to love better people, use a love affirmation for the purpose.
The following love affirmation should be your constant companion.
If you feel like making your own love affirmations to attract love and to replicate them, mix two or more positive references, preferably in front of a mirror, at least one hundred times daily for six to seven months daily.
As the time passes, you will find that after making a conscious effort without any hesitation, you will become a more loving person and attract more people who love your life.
Life Is Good
Life is good. But why is it so easy to focus on the bad and forget everything else? When you’re single, it’s easy to think like that.
What To Do: Practice Gratitude. Some people find it useful to keep a gratitude journal so you have something to look back on when it’s hard to muster positivity.
I Deserve This
You absolutely deserve love and happiness. You deserve romance, hot sex, true partnership, and anything else that you want out of a relationship.
How It Can Help: When you feel like you do not deserve the good things in your life, you create a self-fulfilling prophecy. The same is true when you feel like you are worthy. Also, feeling like you are not worth is Not cool.
What To Do: Remind yourself that you deserve this happiness whenever you feel doubt. Give you a mini pep-talk.
Of course you are beautiful. You have to be able to rely on yourself and your own self-worth.
How it can help: Being able to see your beauty is part of healthy self-esteem, and healthy self-esteem is necessary for healthy relationships.
What To Do: Stop all negative thoughts. You may be wondering how many times you have to do, but do not give up. You’ll finally retain your brain.
This Is My True Partner
Your partner is not a child you have to look after, a master you have to serve, a defocus you have to deal with.
How It Can Help: Equality is a beautiful thing. It makes life easier, and fairer, but also more enjoyable.
What to Do: Share the responsibility! Share the love, share the work, share the blame. Compromise. Approach life as a team.
This Person Is Not My Everything
It can feel like this, but this is not true. You have to be the center of your world as a healthy, independent, full rich person.
How It Can Help: When your attitude is to increase your lifestyle but is not your everything, you keep your friends, maintain your hobbies and interests, and basically you are happy. And if the day comes when you lose them, you’re still fine on your own feet, no matter how sad it is.
What To Do: Be you. Keep your friends. Get a healthy place where you can be alone and take care of yourself, even if you are in a relationship.
Appreciate that your partner is amazing, but never lose sight of your personality.
Author ~ Vishuka Chaudhary
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