Magic Sparkles of Happiness ~ Exactly in this moment

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by Elena D. Calin
Chapter 1 ~ Exactly in this moment

“I felt my lungs inflate with the onrush of the scenery – air, mountains, trees, people. I thought, “This is what it is to be happy." – Sylvia Plath

Exactly in this moment the other part of the Earth is sleeping. Millions of people are just sleeping, in this moment, in millions of beds. All of them are breathing, slowly, dreaming millions of dreams.

Exactly in this moment something fabulous is happening somewhere and I don’t know about it and cannot even picture it in my mind. I want, at least, to visualize this picture. Because I know that I will never see it for real.

Exactly in this moment tones of hair are being caressed by someone’s hand all around the world.

Exactly in this moment thousands of kids are given births by their mothers, and I will never see all these small, full of life babies.

Exactly in this moment billions of leaves stay up on trees. Billions of leaves are moving in the wind all around the world. Take a moment and picture this.

Exactly in this moment millions of hearts are just beating.

Now! Just Now! Now again! And now! And now! And now! Now! Now! Millions of them!
There are so much more than 10 hearts, so much more than 100 hearts, so much more than 1,000 hearts, and so much more than 10,000 hearts!
In this exact moment! It is so amazing! I will never see with my own eyes, in reality, all these constant beatings, all the hearts in the world beating in a certain moment in time. At least I can use my imagination to picture in my mind this process and is so majestic.
I just want to be so quiet as I can right now. Who knows, maybe when I am quiet, enough, I can hear the hearts beating.

Exactly in this moment so many kids are smiling.

They are just smiling right now. No matter what events are happening now in the world, there are these kids smiling, everywhere, who I will never see with my own eyes, but they are there, playing most probably.

I can visualize them in my mind that they are smiling and playing. And some of them are actually laughing. So many children laughing, exactly while I’m writing these words! Exactly now! They are just laughing right now! Such a nerve for them to do this in every moment when there is so much sadness and grief in the world.

Therefore in the same moment pure happiness and deep grief always exist on Earth.

My present happiness depends on what part of the world I am directing my thoughts. My focus adds energy to the pure energy, the laughs of children or the grief of adults. I choose the awareness I am focusing on. Therefore should I focus only on the laughs or only on the grief?

It would be smart to choose to focus on the awareness that in every moment both actually exist. If I am insisting on focusing too much on grief, I neglect (being ignorant) of the happiness that exist in the same moment with the grief.

Should I focus only on the happiness, ignoring grief? No, because I would never understand and own compassion. But I understand and own gracefully compassion because I see with my right eye the grief and with my left eye the happiness. I am not ignorant of either one. And I will have more chances of bringing happiness where there is grief.

Exactly in this moment so many people are breathing.

All living humans are breathing now. Exactly now, people are taking air in their lungs and getting the air outside from their lungs back into the outside world! We are breathing the same air. All of us! On Earth!
I am so grateful trying to picture all these people breathing. Maybe I imagine kids playing with their breaths because they might think it’s funny.
A kid could ask his mother: “What is this, Mom?" And he shows to the mother how he is breathing. The mother smiles and says: “It’s called breathing, and we all do this. Our lungs help us do it. You will do this all your life, remember to do it with joy, and deeply."
Well, maybe she doesn’t say the last part or maybe it crossed her mind but didn’t say it. Like it happens to me sometime and to you certainly now, because you read this words.

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Exactly in this moment thousands of apples are being eaten.

Other thousands of apples are washed exactly now so that they can be eaten in few seconds from now. Hundreds of people are baking an apple pie exactly in this moment. Can you sense the smell of all these apple pies?
Can you picture the joy of each person waiting for the apple pie to be baked? Exactly in this moment other thousands of people of different ages are eating an apple pie that has baked before. They are enjoying every bite, they are biting from it now, and again, just now, they are doing it.
You cannot stop them from eating the apple pie. You cannot stop them from being happy doing it. And again they are biting from the apple pie just now, far away in the world, in which place you and I never know.

Exactly in this moment thousands of people are sneezing.

You can take your time when you want and say “Bless you" or “Good luck" to them whenever you have a free day.
But the time of a day will not be enough. I am kidding, don’t do that. Picture it! Whenever you say you are bored and don’t know what to do, you can just take some moments to say “Bless you" to all the people that are sneezing in every moment. You will never know which ones sneezed. All you know is that they do it, somewhere in the world.

Exactly in this moment…

… millions of animals of every kind, all around the world, are stretching their bodies and yawning. Little new born animals are yawning now. Pets like dogs and cats, from different houses are stretching happy and satisfied. Do birds stretch? I don’t know, maybe we should do a research on this.

Millions of people’s faces just smile exactly in this moment for whatever reason.

They smile with different cheeks, eyes and mouth. And when you think of it, in every moment of our life there will always be at least one million people smiling in the world. And you can never stop them from doing that, and you can never know which one smiled in which moment.
When someone else in another part of the world is reading this book exactly now, and wonders who is smiling now, and you are smiling now, then you could tell to that person that you are one of the million people that are smiling now. Just that you don’t know who is reading this book now. So you will never know who thought of you right now.

Exactly in this moment millions of people are changing their clothes; are dressing to go somewhere. Exactly in this moment a lot of people are washing their bodies all around the world.

Millions of ladies are painting their nails exactly in this moment.

And you can be confident that all the colours are being used exactly now for the nail polish. I am sure that there is no colour that is not being used by a lady, somewhere, just now, painting with it her nails.

Thousands of men are shaving their face right now, very carefully. Other thousands of men and women are spraying perfume on their bodies just now. It smells so good.

Exactly in this moment millions of people are reading.

Some are reading a newspaper, some are reading a book, some are reading an article on the Internet, and some are reading a sign pointing for direction.

Millions of people are listening to millions of sounds exactly now.

Millions of hands are robbing their eyes right now.

And also right now millions of people are watching millions of beautiful pictures. And they are smiling.

Millions of people are friendly with each other exactly in this moment. They are serving someone with something.

Exactly in this moment the warm wind is caressing millions of faces.

The world is in continuous movement.

The world changes and then re-changes again doing the same things like before. This rhythm of doing the same things all over again, in different moments of time, is changed from time to time, with new things that appear into the world. These new things, these innovations soon become old things. The life, the complexity, the joy and the abundance increases.

“The happiness of our life depends upon the quality of your thoughts." – Marcus Aurelius (Meditations)

 

Homework 1:

The above chapter is an exercise which everyone can do. The exercise has the goal to increase your happy consciousness to a wider level of awareness.

Therefore, make your own personalized exercise by replacing the following magic sparkles with your own words:

EXACTLY IN THIS MOMENT *****************

Remember that these affirmations are presenting to you the reality and are meant to increase your joyful awareness, meaning to increase your ease, serenity, love, gratitude, contentment and your feeling of being positively amazed by the world in which you too are living. Therefore please choose beautiful and mesmerizing pictures for your mind.

BE confident that, someone is reading this book, just now, and that someone is definitely thinking of you. They are definitely thinking of one aspect related to you (either your smile, hair, hands…). When you smile and you think of all the people that are smiling all around the world, and when that someone smiles and thinks of all the people that are smiling all around the world, then that someone is thinking at you, just now, and you are connected in a beautiful spiritual circle, without knowing it.

“Think of all the beauty still left around you and be happy." – Anne Frank

Author’s word

This book contains positive affirmations that make you feel happy. I recommend you to read throughout the chapters, taking each sentence, one by one. The sentences are arranged in a certain serene flow but can also be read separately.

The writing of this book has begun with my daily writings. I had some blissful, full of love, mesmerizing days when I just felt that I want to connect my own being with positive, high and strong words. Then connect myself with everything around me, connect my consciousness with the reality outside me. In this state I began to write this book.

Books by the same author:
Hortensio and the Magic Stories
Leader versus Manager

 

 

Magic Sparkles of Happiness – Introduction and Book Description

Magic Sparkles of Happiness ~ Introduction and Book Description

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“Happiness is the meaning and the purpose of life, the whole aim and end of human existence." – Aristotle

This book contains positive affirmations that make you feel happy. I recommend you to read throughout the chapters, taking each sentence, one by one. The sentences are arranged in a certain serene flow but can also be read separately.

The writing of this book has begun with my daily writings. I had some blissful, full of love, mesmerizing days when I just felt that I want to connect my own being with positive, high and strong words. Then connect myself with everything around me, connect my consciousness with the reality outside me. In this state I began to write this book.

Here is what I wrote.

I remember that when I was 19 years old I had a revelation. In that state I clearly saw how everything in this world is strongly connected with all the others. Was alone in my house and I was writing my thoughts. It just stroked me, like a lightning – that interconnection – that bliss and clear knowledge of all being connected.

The connectedness revealed itself to me in a flash light. I saw with my inner eye how everything that ever existed and exists has a connection with everything else. It was also a logical connection in my brain and I could simply explain it, through words.

It was not just an unique feeling, it was more than this.

Was a certain unique blissful wise energy and it invaded my consciousness. I remember I wanted to talk to every person in the world right then and there. I was so convinced that exactly in that moment I could have proved to anyone through simple logic the strong and amazing connection between everything. For me that feeling was amazing and I still remember it now.

Since then, I never felt that moment of bliss cumulated with so much wisdom again. I’ve had other moments of bliss, other moments of revelations, but not like that one. Even if I am now 30 years old and I didn’t had another moment like that one, and maybe I will never have it again, I have another feeling related to that moment.

I feel that that knowledge is deeply implemented in me.

Is living inside my own being and nobody could ever pull it out of me. It’s like a deep truth for me. I know for sure that everything is interconnected in this world, in such a way that a substance of “something that existed" always remains in the world and continues to exist under a different form. It’s like the pure blissful essence is embedded at first under a certain form and at the end it takes a different/another form. Then the end is the beginning of the new beginning.

If you ask me for an example, is not easy to give. I can say that the magical particles, or the essence, are incorporated in the entity (the human) that is “thinking" (let’s say is thinking of a future tree). Then the essence somehow passes duplicated inside an “idea". An idea is a form because an idea is just a pattern of energy.

The idea of a tree

Same process continue and the essence passes in other forms as: the intention (another pattern of energy), the seed connected with the land, the tree itself from the reality connected with Earth, the flowers of the tree, the fruits of the tree, again seeds, again the land, again the air, the water, the human that eats the fruit and another one that makes a chair out of the tree, which initially was a seed. Therefore here is the interconnection between the chair and the seed, between the essence that was incorporated in an idea about a seed and the essence that was incorporated in a chair made by another human being out of the tree that grew from the seed.

The essence came from the same big mega-organism, a higher force like I call it in this book. The process begins again in this flowing, kind and friendly cycle. At the same moment, the purpose exists in every form and it exist in the overall big cycle. It is like someone was alive inside all of the existing forms and has created the overall form, the big one. For me that someone is a higher force.

I believe that this higher force express herself from the inside of every form. This higher force is feeling, learning about herself, from the inside of every form. I am a form of many. This higher force express herself through me, therefore feels happy through me.
The higher force feels through me. This entire mechanism makes me feel happy. All people are here to feel good and feel happiness.

Words about this book by Manuela Stancu (professional literature translator):

“Learning new things from a new book is usually what we look for in our readings. Having a good laugh or shedding a tear when it is finished is always a bonus. But getting hope from just reading a book is just wonderful. This is what I felt like after finishing reading Elena’s book Magic Sparkles of Happiness.

It all started with finding myself in every of its chapters. In giving thanks, in receiving blessings, in seeing things clearly, in loving every bit of the Universe.
It continued with the way Elena knew how to take me further with every one of her “magic sparkles". It ended (although end would not be the proper term for it) when I finished reading and I just wanted to read through it again, to find the things that I valued most, that I appreciate most, that I thought would help me be a better person.

And so I did, I browsed again through it and tried to keep every wise word in my heart for as long as I will be able to.

I recommend “Magic Sparkles of Happiness"…

… to all those who are looking for it – for the perpetual, omnipresent, enchanting happiness that fills your heart and never goes away easily. This is dedicated to those who know they deserve to be happy and make other people happy, as well.
This book is meant to be read by those of you who have lost hope or that don’t believe in anything anymore. It’s a book for kids, adolescents, adult and elders. It’s that book you know you have to read at least once a year. Will help you remind yourself of what you really are after, of what you want to do, of how you want your life to look like every day.

It was surprising that a person so young and apparently so fragile as Elena could have so much wisdom hiding inside of her and that she would have the inspiration to put it in writing in such a wonderful way. It’s almost magic and definitely an act of courage for someone who has studied economy almost all her adulthood to write like this. This is not her first book I had the chance to read, this is the second one and I know she is preparing a third, a forth, a fifth… and I am convinced that she will bring just as much enthusiasm and magic in our life with every one of them.

Last, but not least, I am inviting you to dare to read this book and try to really think about what every chapter stands for.

Try to “do your homework" thoroughly – and I don’t only mean the homework at the end of every chapter, but the one we have to do every day in order to become a better person, a kinder person, a more peaceful and happy person.

We have to wake up every morning feeling thankful that we get one more day and live our lives as Elena says: “You cannot enjoy the snow dressed in summer clothes. You cannot enjoy life without dressing yourself in gratitude."

All my gratitude goes to you, Elena! Love, Manuela"

“Happiness is not something ready-made. It comes from your own actions." – Dalai Lama XIV

 

 

 

Positive Impact on Others

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Impact People and their lives.

Seeing someone you have helped in the past being upbeat and doing well is always a positive thing. Knowing that you could be the one to touch their lives and be that ray of light that they needed is a special feeling.

Then one day you run into them again, on a break or just in the hall at work. You see them and you start smiling and so do they. In this instance, I smiled and he smiled and said…

“You must be my angel"

Of course, I had no idea what he meant or how to respond, but he proceeds to tell me that he is suicidal again. I had a feeling that something was wrong when I saw him but just asked how he was doing.

This is a very heart breaking issue for anyone to experience, whether you are the one that is suicidal or the one they come to for help. Was glad I was at the right place at the right time for him, but still it was a sad moment.

Put on my smile and patted his shoulder to let him know that everything was going to be alright and walked with him to the clinic. Helped him check in and stayed with him to make sure he was comfortable while waiting. I told him I would stay but he smiles and assures me he will be fine.

All of this to say, you never know how much you impact someone

You never know when that one special person will be a part of your life. Just stop for a moment and think about how you react or will react in certain situations. There will always be someone who needs that extra smile, that little extra bit of encouragement in life.

Often people ignore situations or one another. Ignoring them by looking down and not smiling or listening to them. You might be able to tell there is a problem going on but do not want to get involved.

Chose to care

For example, I could have just spoken to this man, smiled and walked on. I CHOSE to take the extra step and listen. That because I picked up on the fact that something might be wrong.

When you see a co-worker or even a stranger looking sad or know they are having a bad day and you smile at them or just speak to them, they feel you caring.

Having an impact on someone means that you took the extra time to care. No matter how small you think it is, I can promise you that it is noticed.

Take the time to get involved!

Just that one smile or conversation could be a life changing moment for them, even though it seems simple to you.

For example, the next time you see a homeless person in McDonalds or a gas station, someone you see each day on your way to work, just smile at them or tell them good morning.

It is really the simple things in life that stick with someone. It really does not take much to be nice or have an impact, sometimes we just need to be reminded. I truly hope that these words make at least one person stop to think.

 

Melonie Shelton

Author’s Bio

My name is Melonie Shelton and I’m a 44 year old single mom. I have 1 daughter in college and we live in Arkansas. Work for the VA hospital and have a side business doing mostly abstract art, but some wood working as well. I never meet a stranger one of my goals has always been to help others.

 

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Emulate These 4 Habits To Build A Positive Attitude Towards Life!

 

Habits To Build A Positive Attitude Towards Life

Emulate These 4 Habits To Build A Positive Attitude Towards Life!

In this world, there are many people who have a negative outlook towards life. This sort of mindset not only deteriorates their own lives but the mindset of their family and friends also get contaminated by the aura of their personality. For those toxic people, there is hardly a moment of happiness.

Luckily, it isn’t difficult to create a positive attitude, provided it isn’t a case of medical depression. A positive attitude also helps become happier and more successful. Hopefully, a few tweaks like the ones below can help someone out of their fog and into a brighter, happier frame of mind:

  1. Write It Down

Sometimes, one ugly turn or fight can bring down our whole day. When this happens, it can be all too easy to forget the good things that happened the very same day. If your mind is veering towards simply focusing on the negative, you can try to force it in another way.

This way is by writing down everything that you’re grateful for each day. It might take some time out of your busy routine, but only a few seconds. It is scientifically proven that gratitude increases happiness, even strengthens relationships. If you can’t write down every single good thing, try writing down a few things you’re grateful for every day.

  1. Redirect Yourself

The cause of a negative attitude could be a job, workplace, colleague, or just the general way your life’s headed. Don’t ever think that just because you chose a certain career or path, you have to stick to it. For example, one might be deeply miserable in their marriage, but hold on to the fact that they agreed to the words ‘till death do us part’.

If you can control the situation that’s making you miserable, go for it. If you have given all your efforts and there’s no hope left, don’t be afraid to leave the job or the relationship. Your subsequent relief and happiness may surprise you when you’ve shed an unwanted burden.

  1. Accept Rejection

There are some miserable people who can’t get over their rejection. This could be their failure to get a job or be in a relationship with someone. However, everyone must accept that rejection is inevitable in life. Not everyone or every company would always want you, and you can’t always blame them.

If you pick yourself up and expect good things to happen instead of bad, chances are you will get something much better than you wanted. However, if you keep wallowing in self-pity, it’s unlikely that you would succeed professionally or personally.

  1. Realize The Power Of Words

The words we use to describe our lives, jobs and activities affect us just as much as the people around us. Our speech falls on our ears first of all, so if we verbalize positive thoughts, they would buoy us up.

If you describe your life as fun, full, exciting etc, it’s likely to feel that way before very long. Do the opposite, and you’ll be back to your negative cloud.

One good tip is to try and replace negative words with positive every chance you get. Instead of saying ‘I have to study’, say ‘I get to study!’ The repercussion of the second sentence gets you thinking about all those people who would love to be able to study but can’t.

Wrapping Up…

Making yourself happy and keeping a positive attitude are closely interlinked. In addition to the tips above, one should also assume that material things aren’t going to bring them happiness. In fact, trying to bring other people some joy is an inexplicable way to create a positive attitude within oneself. There’s no harm in trying for a better outlook on life, and everything to gain!

Author Bio

Scarlett Erin is a Life Coach, Pro Writer, and a Blogger. Apart from being a full-time life coach, she is also a Research Expert at Assignment Star uk. In her blogs, she shares articles about life, relationship, health, and travel.

 

Train Yourself to Be More Positive in 5 Steps

Train Yourself to Be More Positive in 5 Steps - create positive thinking Train Yourself to Be More Positive in 5 Steps

Everyone in the world would like to be positive and optimistic in their personal, professional and social life. People used to say a lot of times with others and also to themselves that they are positive and optimistic. However, they become negative when they face some bad situations in their life. Keep in mind that successful positive thinking people were effective to deal with their bad moments in life. They always consider that horrific moments are good means for them to taste the real feelings of good moments and also consider that bad moments are a way to develop their personality, skills and many more.

According to Winston Churchill, “A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty." If you are negative to the difficult things that take place in your life, you can take this quote to your heart because you can get inspired from it and become a positive person. Being positive in your life offers you a lot of benefits like ability to take any risk, develop positive mindset, control your emotions, control your overall life, manage negative situations effectively, face challenging situations with ease, offer better health, boost your motivation, avoid stress and worries, build meaningful friendships and great relationships, etc.

Following are some of the steps or tips to help you to train yourself to be more positive:

  1. Believe In Your Abilities and Skills

One of the first things that you should have in your life to become more positive is developing a faith in your skills and abilities. If you don’t have believe in your abilities, skills, knowledge and capabilities, you will automatically develop negative views about you. Believing in your abilities and skills gives you a lot of self-confidence and assurance about you. Train yourself to have ample faith in you, so you will be able to face any challenges and difficult situations in your life. It is also a great way to dig deep within you to overcome your unnecessary fears. If you believe in you, you can never let any person to bring you down.

  1. CREATE POSITIVE THINKING

If you would like to train yourself to be more positive, you should make sure to create positive thinking. People who have negative thinking in their life can never become a positive person. Negative thinking people will always think negatives and will not be able to take a step forward with confidence. Train your mind to reflect on what you want in life, and keep away from thinking about what you don’t want. Negative thinking depletes your energy and it is destructive. You can never find a good thing even in a positive thing if you maintain negativity in your life. So, think positive, take action with a positive state of mind, move forward in your life with positive mind, and never let negative aspects come into your mind under any circumstances.

  1. TRAIN YOURSELF TO Smile

Smile can cure almost every bad feeling that you have in your life. If you maintain a smile in your face and if you could spread the same smile in your all activities every day, you will never think about negative things and be more positive. With a smile, you can face challenges in your life, take terrible things lightly, overcome difficult situations with ease, manage hardships in your life, and more importantly, influence the lives of people who are negative in their life. Keeping smile with you denote a happy, clean, pure and perfect mind where there is no negative or pessimistic thoughts. You can track your mind into being more positive is through smiling. Give a smile to the challenges, hardships, and many issues that occur in your life daily.

  1. Forget Past and Live In The Present

    FORGET PAST AND LIVE IN THE PRESENT

You can train yourself to be more positive by forgetting past and living in the present. The best parts of people who are negative thinkers live in the past and they never ever try to forget bad or bitter things that occurred in their life. Forgetting bad and bitter things that happened in our past life is a great skill because it let you to live happily as well as peacefully. It will also aid you to think positively in your life and do things that are necessary for the moment. Thinking about past things will hinder your growth and stop you from doing even important things in your present life. So, delete or format past events and live in the present to be more positive.

  1. Share With Others

Sharing is a crucial thing in order to be happy and positive in our life. If you show the courage to share your personal matters with a person whom you can trust gives you more relief and energy. It will also aid you to rub out your negativity and develop a positive mind that is pure and spotless. When you share your matters with others, he or she can aid you to think positively and guide you to erase your negative feelings. Stress, tension, panics and worries can contribute to your negative thoughts.

Sharing will let you to avoid your stress, tension, panics and worries. You should also aim to be friends with positive people because others thoughts can influence your life greatly. In order to keep up their positive mindset, positive thinkers only surround themselves with people and things that will aid them to flourish positive attitude.

 

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